Class introduction

All couples struggle with mostly the same issues at different times. This is definitely not just my husband and wife.

Couples break up not because of differences in personality, but because of differences in positions and circumstances. It is necessary to have the ability to recognize and express that position and situation with each other. Only those who have honed those skills can survive marriage.

Those of you who have listened to my lectures will probably no longer be afraid of fights in the future. This is because fighting is so necessary in marriage and is a key to developing relationships.

If you only know the two things of enjoying each other's differences, studying, and fighting well, you can even see the person I loved grow old.

The experience of being a dark-haired papaya. Would you like to try it?

I'm here to help.

Course effect

• The partner's conditions you need to know when you're in a relationship
• How to fight well, not how to fight - Things you need to know to have a happy marriage
• When should I decide to break up? - Under what circumstances do other people usually break up? Protecting myself, which is more important than relationships.
• What to do for a fresh start after a divorce

Recommended target

• Those who are worried about getting married but are hesitant to get married because the married people around them don't seem happy
• Married people who are experiencing a more lonely and confusing so-called “five years of adolescence” after marriage
• Wouldn't you be much happier if you got divorced? Those who are curious
• People who often hear from their partner that they have poor empathy and sense of reality

What makes this class special

Year 10 A lawyer specializing in divorce tells you

How to maintain a 'happy marriage'

I started working as a divorce lawyer in my early 20s, and now I'm forty years old. Having lived as a divorce lawyer for over 10 years, I have thoroughly consulted thousands of people and watched them break up.

I began to think a lot about “why do people break up,” “when do they think they don't have a future with the other person,” and “why does marriage make it difficult for each other,” and I have come to realize a lot of things.

I've seen couples who have reached the extreme space of the courtroom and come to know that their hatred for each other is actually due to a misunderstanding, but there are also many couples who end up putting an end to their relationship because they don't communicate properly even though they recognize that it's a misunderstanding.

I thought it would be a waste for me to learn about frequent misunderstandings about each other, when conflicts occur, and how to resolve conflicts naturally. Also, since it is a job that helps with breakups, I also have a desire to connect people who are on the verge of parting. That's why I give lectures every once in a while.

Sebashi's 15 minute lecture on relationships received over 1.8 million views, and she also appeared on “tvN You Quiz” to talk about the breakup. I was selected as the number one lecture I wanted to hear from national institutions such as Suwon City Hall, and I also gave a lecture at the Suwon Forum.

I would like to share my professional and personal experiences with many people and let many people know that <<>happy marriage>, which seems to exist in fairy tales, can exist.

▶ Are you afraid of getting married?