It is very impressive that you listened to the parable of Lego. I bought my son a Lego for the first time, who turned four this year, and I thought he'd lose a block, so I made it perfect according to the instructions, and I told him to play with it. And when my son broke it while he was playing, he got really mad. I suddenly thought of that later on. I'm not going to keep it anyway, but I think I'm too sensitive to play with. When I realized my son wasn't playing around with Lego, and he was looking at me... I broke it first. And let's make it together. Now he's putting it on himself, making it, and playing. What if I lose a block? It's not even a resale.
And I realized it today. I think I had perfection in me without realizing it. I don't want to lose, and if I lose a block, I lose a piece of property, and I lose a game. I've been so obsessed with this. I think playing chess with people is getting scary and boring. Nelson's phrase, "You don't lose, you learn," is very touching. So I'm going to go get rid of it again today. No, I'm going to go learn. Thank you. ^^
