About the class

Hallo

I'm Cho Yoon-gyeong, director of Yoon&G Psychological Research Institute.

I run a psychology lab with my daughter.

I published a parenting book in 2021 at the suggestion of my daughter.

“Why did you think the child was a problem?”

I have had various clinical cases due to my 20 years of family counseling experience

I didn't think I'd open a book. I've been so busy, and I didn't think this was a field for me to challenge.

However, the daughter decided that she would help her.

And I recorded everything I said, had endless conversations, and wrote every day.

After 2 years of preparation, the book that came out into the world was selected as a Naver book talk book and went on the air and sold out.

And now I started this course with my daughter's suggestion.

Everyone around me talks about how they get along so well.

However, I didn't have such a good relationship with my daughter from the beginning.

On the contrary, I think I had a good relationship with my son without ups and downs.

My relationship with my daughter went up and down like a roller coaster.

I worked hard to raise them and worked hard, but

My child didn't change as much as I thought, and I was exhausted.

I did my best, but what's the problem?

After worrying, I realized it.

The problem was that I did my best.

I didn't observe my daughter; I just did my best.

I moved away from my traditional frame and observed and watched the child like someone else.

So I saw the child's abilities hidden in what I thought was a problem.

I wanted my child to be happy.

Don't listen to bad sounds from outside

I trained children so that they could live a beautiful life everywhere.

This is my wrong answer.

I had to observe the child prior to discipline

I had to acknowledge the child's temperament

I needed to develop abilities hidden within my temperament.

According to Masler's theory of the five major human needs

The need for stability precedes the need for growth.

Only children who feel safe can move forward towards growth.

The family must first give stability to the child

Therefore, recognition of a temperament that does not change must be preceded

Children can comfortably accept their presence.

I've walked the whole way of parenting, both outside and inside.

I lived at home and out, raising children.

There are families that came to the research center, and there are families where I went home myself because my child didn't leave the house.

I came here with different problems, but my parents said the same thing.

Why is my kid doing that?

On the surface, there is a question mark, but it contains the statement that the child's behavior is incomprehensible.

“Why can't my child ~ like other kids?”

This kind of self-blame and anxiety comes from not knowing my child's temperament.

What is temperament?

It's not going to change.

It's an innate temperament

It's the root that becomes the root of personality.

Personality is built on temperament.

The caregiver has a responsibility to identify the child's temperament and guide the appropriate formation of the Bible.

Prior to unconditional discipline, it is necessary to observe the child and develop a personality that matches the child's temperament.

A child has an innate temperament

Form a primary personality at home

Go out into society and form a secondary personality.

As much as all the processes are piled up one by one

The foundation is more important than anything else.

If I know my child's temperament, I can see the abilities hidden in the child's problematic behavior.

A child who grows up being recognized and supported for his temperament is unruly.

The ability to control one's own emotions or behavior is enhanced.

They compare themselves to others and don't dwell on their own deficiencies.

Conversely, an atrophied child has no strength to overcome stress.

How can someone who thinks they're weak overcome frustration?

You need to be confident that you won't be rejected just the way you are.

There is a temperament in problem behavior

There is power within temperament.

Only children who have been recognized for their temperament can realize and utilize their abilities

You can trust yourself.

After listening to this course, I no longer look at the negative side of a child's words and actions.

The child's problematic behavior that used to look through a microscope will no longer be visible.

Anxiety and frustration with children are completely relieved.

Moms are not born; they are created through experience.

Hoping that every child will be as big as me

Recommended target

Those who are worried because their child is egocentric or careless
Those who are worried because their child is too big or distracted
People who find it difficult to communicate because of children who have no expression
People who know the theory but sometimes find it difficult to put it into practice

Course effect

Those who are worried because their child is egocentric or careless

: You can discover the hidden abilities of 'self-shaped' children

Those who are worried because their child is too big or distracted

: You can discover the hidden abilities of “caring” children

People who find it difficult to communicate because of children who have no expression

: “Language” accounts for less than half of communication

By focusing on “non-language,” you will be able to read the messages sent by the child and interact with the child through drawing tools

People who know the theory but sometimes find it difficult to put it into practice

: Through 'mind training' through drawing tools, it is possible to control emotions when they are ahead

What makes this class special

You can find vivid examples of 30 years of parenting counseling and practical tips that can be applied directly to reality
You can find a “new temperament” course that you can't find in other temperament courses
It's a real “child and parent” story where a mother and daughter teach together

[Temperament parenting] Why did you think children were a problem?

[Temperament parenting] Why did you think children were a problem?